If you know someone who has self esteem issues, self control issues, lack of loyalty, and selfish tendencies then make sure you never ask them to keep your secrets safe. Some people take the information you gave them in trust and treat it like if you just handed them a hot piece of charcoal. It’s up to you to seek solace in the company you keep and the secrets you confide in them. Spilling your heart out to someone that has malicious intent towards you is like asking this person to hold water in their hands. So the point is that you have to make sure this person is capable of holding water. As I see it there’s only one person in this world with that capability and he will always keep your secrets and never judge you in return. Reevaluate the comfort level you share with others.